Why Queer Spaces Often Fail South Asian Women
Racism and homophobia still affect queer South Asian women in LGBTQ spaces and at home. WORDS BY NANDIKA CHATTERJE, UNCLOSETED MEDIA PHOTO BY THE WHITE HOUSE “I want to change your last name to make it sound whiter,” Sonali “Alyy” Patel remembers her white girlfriend saying to her while they were spending a quiet evening at home. Patel felt a wave of grief wash over her. “I [have] to give up my South Asian-ness in order to be in a queer relationship,” she remembers thinking. Patel and her girlfriend had been…
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